Wednesday, October 3, 2012

Life in bullets, take 2 (0r 3?)

* Eric came up to me a couple of days ago with a very serious expression on his face.
 "Mommy?" he asked.  "Why does Santa come down the chimney?  Where doesn't he just come in through the front door?"
I said, "That's a good question, Eric!  When Santa comes to the mall, I want you to ask him that.  Then come back and tell me what he says."

* One of my oldest friends Kelly just moved to North Carolina.  And while I have 2 kids and no time to drive down, Kelly has one frightened cat and loads of free time (ok, maybe not "loads" of free time, but certainly more than me) and is willing to come and see me this weekend.  Yay!!!

* Rachel is adorable.  She is also willful and tries to push my buttons.  Her newest thing is using the bathroom after we put her to bed.  Then she hangs out in the bathroom naked, playing with the bath toys and talking to herself.  An example of her with a plastic Elmo figurine:
"Rachel?" says Elmo in a squeaky Rachel voice.
"Yes Elmo?"
"Have you washed your hands?" asks squeaky Elmo.
"No," answers Rachel.
"You NEED to," lectures Elmo.
"No!" screams Rachel.

And so on...  I wish I had a video camera for every time the kids create a cute dialog with their toys or do something cute.

Saturday, September 29, 2012

It's amazing the things you'd sell your soul for once you are a parent...

What tops YOUR list???

Here's mine:

1- A night with total control of the t.v. remote with NO KIDS ANYWHERE IN THE HOUSE to interrupt what I'm watching.
 1.5- A chance to watch an entire Washington Nationals or Redskins game (insert your favorite team here, unless it happens to be the Cowboys.... or any team from Philadelphia [sorry Pete])

2- Eight hours of uninterrupted sleep with no early morning wake-ups

3- Being able to go out with your significant other any day, any time, anywhere

4- Looking as good as your older friends who don't have kids

And I get it.  I know that in about 20 years I'll look back on this blog and cry my little eyes out that "my babies" are all grown up and have left the house.  I am a total sucker for nostalgia, so I know I will miss all this eventually.  But how many empty-nesters tell us young mothers how lucky we are, but then they never volunteer to watch anyone's kids for even an hour so we can run an errand?  Personally, I think time erases all the bad memories so you remember things as being absolutely picture-perfect.

I asked John what his list would be...

John: Well, some of those would be nice, but I don't know that I'd sell my soul for them...

[sigh].  No appreciation for superfluous prose.  Or sarcasm.  Maybe I should move...

Wednesday, September 19, 2012

The Worst PBS Kids shows for your preschoolers (and, yes, it's biased and without *much* logic)

I have a confession to make...

My children were watching t.v. long before the two year-old American Pediatrics Association starting point.  In fact, my son watched so much Sesame Street that at the age of two he knew his ABCs and could count up to 100.  Eric couldn't talk at all, but when you have two kids under 2 years, you need preschooler programming in order not to binge drink.  

Eric can now talk, just in case you were wondering, but I'll be the first to admit that when Mommy has to make dinner, I have no problem with my kids watching t.v.  My only rule is that it can't be Nickelodeon or any of those Disney channels; it can only be PBS.  This is not because John and I are intellectual snobs; it's simply because I cannot stand those loud, toxic commercials that turn my otherwise nice kids into selfish little monsters at the store.

For those of you who don't want to endure hours of shitty preschooler programming in order to find a good show for your young kids, you've come to the right blog.  I've done the work for you.  You're welcome, by the way.  I'll take payment in Krispy Kreme doughnuts.  Or Edible Arrangements with lots of chocolate strawberries.

The following is a list of the worst shows on PBS. The next post will be a list of the BEST shows on PBS, but I ran out of time.  All of these programs are either on local PBS stations or on a 24-hour preschool station called "PBS Sprout."* 

Shows that Suck
(in order no particular order)

 1. Lazytown (as seen on PBS Sprout).
Holy horse crap, whoever came up with this idea should be in therapy.  The premise is this: a perky tween girl with neon pink hair moves to a town filled with lazy and creepy looking muppet rejects.  A new super-hero in his twenties named Sportucus comes to town to teach everyone about healthy eating habits and exercise.  Sportucus is thwarted, however, by an evil villain named Robbie Rotten (also a man in his twenties).

Here's the thing: if there were more boys and girls on the show (real kids, not garish cartoon-puppets), I wouldn't have a problem with it.  But when the premise is one prepubescent girl whose only friend is a grown man saving her from a villain?  This sets off my Creep-o-meter.  I can appreciate a show that wants to teach healthy habits to young kids, but why in the name of Zeus's bung hole are the ONLY human characters a 12 year old girl and two grown men?  Where I come from, there's a word for athletic men in their twenties who move to a town in order to play with 12 year-old girls, and it isn't "Superhero."     

Grade: F

 2. Barney (now seen on PBS Sprout)

My good friends Pete and Alison refer to Barney as "the purple scourge."  There's a reason why adults hate this show.  Barney has a total of 2 brain cells that continuously collide in a verbal retching
of overly enthusiastic one-liners like "Super-Dee Duper!"  and "Everything is better with a friend."  Barney neglects to mention that everything with better with a friend who will play the Barney drinking game with you over Skype.

(Update: I just went to the drinkiwiki page and there is no official drinking game for Barney!  This is a grave injustice.  There's one for the Wiggles for God's sake!  My theory is that no one wants to sit through enough episodes of Barney to create a drinking game.  Or they're so drunk after sitting through a couple episodes of the show that they forget all the rules.)

Grade: D-

 3. Thomas the Train (now seen on PBS Sprout)

I know what you're thinking.  'Now what in the world could this chick possibly have against Thomas??'  Well, for one thing Thomas is a dick.  Don't believe me?  Watch a couple shows.  Also, all the engines do really shitty things and never follow the rules which makes everyone "cross."
"Sir Topham Hat was cross."
"Percy was cross."
"Gordon was cross."
"Emily was cross."
 Now whenever Mommy is having a PMS moment, my kids follow me around saying "Is Mommy cross?"

But kudos to the makers of Thomas for FINALLY having female engines.  Equal opportunity and steam engines go together like sushi and chocolate.

Grade: C

 4. Caillou: the first season with the weird puppets (as soon on PBS Sprout)

The four devoted followers of this blog will no doubt remember my Caillou rant from last year.

Caillou is actually 2 different shows: the first season consists of bizarre running dialogs between the family cat and two of Caillou's stuffed animals interspersed with mini-episodes of cartoon Caillou whining and other stereotypical preschool antics. 

Caillou isn't actually a bad show if you watch the later seasons where Caillou consistently uses "please" and "thank you."  My kids actually started saying "please" and "thank you" a heck of a lot more after watching the later seasons.  But in the first season Caillou sounds like a braying mule and throws tantrums whenever he's unhappy.  I learned quickly that kids emulate whatever they see on the screen.  Eric watched these early episodes one day, and the next morning I woke up to demon spawn.  Any show that changes your child into a brat should never be allowed in the home. 

Grade: D

5. Cat in the Hat (local PBS morning programming)

 The theme song to this show drives me absolutely bonkers.  The voice of the Cat is none other than Martin Short after he's done a few lines of cocaine and snorted bath salts.  Maybe it's because I'm not a morning person, but listening to a hyper, super-quirky cartoon makes me want to punch someone in the throat, mostly Martin Short.
 There are two 15 minute episodes per show and the two main characters are children Sally and Nick.  Sally and Nick are playing happily by themselves when the Cat mysteriously appears to whisk them away in his freaky flying car.  Of course, their mother is completely oblivious to all this.  Probably because she's grateful to finally have a chance to finish a cup of coffee (something I haven't done in over four years).  They go on adventures where Nick and Sally learn about new things through the Cat's myriad of animal friends.  Suffice to say, that Cat must really get around because he has a friend in every corner of the globe.  It's a cute show, and if it weren't for my overstimulated ear-drums, it wouldn't even be on the "suck" list.

Grade: B-

Shows that moderately suck, but I don't have any more time for witty sarcasm: 
Dora the Explorer (preschool girl who hangs out with her cousin Diego [who is old enough to have a driver's license, BTW] and a monkey, all while dodging some crazy klepto named Swiper)

Angelina Ballerina (A prissy, self-centered mouse who loves to dance)

Poppy Cat (It's British.  And annoying) 

the Wiggles (It's the Beatles! Only dressed like Star Trek rejects who dance and sing inane songs about things kids love... like food) 

Chloe's Closet (the bossiest bitch on the planet makes all her friends play whatever dress up game SHE wants to play.  And it's British) 

Word Girl (Wouldn't be bad for older kids, but too mentally stimulating for preschoolers)

 I was going to have a list of awesome shows for your kids, but I think I'll leave that for another post.
While writing this I also realized that I am completely biased against the shows whose theme songs I hate.  Interesting....

* I have no idea who came up with the idea of 24-hour kids programming, but they deserve a medal.  Unfortunately, PBS Sprout does have commercials about payday loans and cleaning products.  It was a little creepy when my kids could quote Montel Williams from the Money Mutual ads verbatim, but I consoled myself with the fact that they were too young to steal my car and go get the loan. 

Wednesday, August 22, 2012

You just can't argue with that logic...

Rachel is walking with a plate of plastic food.  She is heading straight for the bathroom.

Me: Umm... Rachel?  Where are you going?
Rachel: I'm going to feed Jesus cookies.
Me: Honey, Jesus isn't in the bathroom.
Rachel: But you said Jesus is everywhere.

SIGH.  Rachel: 1.  Mommy's spiritual instruction: 0

Friday, August 17, 2012

Now if only I'd had more proposals like this...

Last night at bedtime...

Eric: Mommy, I want to marry you.
Me: That's cool.  Any idea what kind of ring will you buy me?
Eric: Gold.
Me: Awesome.  What color is the stone?
Eric: Red.
Me: Ruby or Garnet?
Eric: Garnet.
Me: Hmm.. that's a little cheap...
Eric: Ruby then.
Me: Great!  So what do you think?  Spring, winter, fall, or summer wedding?
Eric: Winter.
Me: That sounds nice.  Christmas weddings are pretty.  Should we get married in the daytime or the nighttime?
Eric: Daytime.
Me: With lots of wedding cake?
Eric: Yeah...
Me: Can we dance at our reception?
Eric: Ok.
Me: So... when do you want to get married?  This year?
Eric: [Exasperated]] No, Mommy!  I have to grow up first!

Just writing down every cute thing they say before Mommy forgets... :-)

Friday, July 27, 2012

Rachel waited a year for this experience...

After watching her big brother ride roller coasters in the children's area for a year, Rachel is finally tall enough to ride as well.

Photo Collage Myrtle Beach 2012